Honoring Lives at Pete Moore Hospice House
Frank’s Story
At the Pete Moore Hospice House, we are honored to provide end-of-life care to community members who have given so much to others.
Frank was the “glue” of his family. He cared for his wife Christine of 53 years, who had been diagnosed with dementia, and their autistic adult son Charles. Even though Frank suffered from Parkinson’s, he always put his family first. His brother describes him as kind, gentle and laidback, the kind of person you couldn’t help but like.
At first it wasn’t easy for Frank to let others take care of him. But after a day or two at Pete Moore Hospice House, in the peaceful quiet of his room, he was able to relax and rest. The few months prior had been chaotic and traumatic for Frank and his family. Frank had contracted a blood infection after back surgery and went back and forth between the hospital and rehab centers. He suffered from seizures and hallucinations and couldn’t get out of bed. When Frank’s brother and sister-in-law toured the hospice house, experiencing its beauty and calm, they knew it would be an ideal place for Frank to spend his final days.
Frank’s private room was filled each day with family and friends during his 19-day stay. His sister-in-law Cheryl appreciated connecting with other families at the house and her 10-year-old grandson loved being outside in the gardens. Cheryl said, “I think the home setting provides the comfort that families need.” Frank’s brother Bob shared his admiration for the staff, saying “everyone was so great in making you feel welcome as soon as you walked in the door. The nurses always had smiles for Frank as they took time to sit with him, ask about how he was feeling, offer him something to eat or drink.”
The morning that Frank passed, his family arrived at the hospice house one last time for his “walk-out”. The entire staff processed with Frank and his family along the hall and out the front door to his mother’s favorite song, The Old Rugged Cross. Bob reflected, “What a fantastic way to end Frank’s life.”